Today, I stand before you to shed light on the powerful topics of women’s emancipation, my personal experience as a single mother, and the painful reality of being a victim of sexual abuse. These are significant aspects of my life that have shaped my understanding of the world and my unwavering commitment to advocating for change.
Certainly, the challenging moments of being an undocumented single mother with no recourse to public funds have been numerous and overwhelming. I am experiencing;
1. Financial Struggles: Without access to public funds or government assistance, the financial burden falls solely on my shoulders. I find it extremely challenging to provide for my child’s basic needs, such as food, shelter, clothing, and healthcare. It has been a constant battle to make ends meet and ensure a stable environment for me and my son. For 7 years we have been moving to different accommodations and have experienced homelessness multiple times which impacted my son’s mental health and well-being.
2. Limited Employment Opportunities: Due to my undocumented status, I have encountered significant barriers in finding legal employment which led to a cycle of low-paying jobs, and underemployment. The fear of being discovered and facing legal consequences can further exacerbate the already stressful situation.
3. Emotional and Mental Stress: The constant worry and uncertainty associated with living as an undocumented single mother with no recourse to public funds took a toll on my emotional and mental well-being. The fear of deportation, the pressure of providing for my child, and the isolation resulting from my circumstances lead to increased stress, anxiety, and depression.
4. Legal Challenges: Navigating the complex legal system without access to legal aid or resources can be an overwhelming task. I had difficulties understanding my rights, protecting myself from exploitation, or seeking legal remedies when necessary. The fear of being reported or detained can hang over my head, adding to the burden I carry every day.
I often rely on the support of charities, friends, and community organisations to meet our basic needs and overcome these obstacles. I believe it is essential to recognise these struggles and advocate for inclusive policies that provide a safety net for the most vulnerable members of society.
The emancipation of women is a cause that has been fought for tirelessly throughout history. It is a battle for gender equality, empowerment, and the recognition of women’s rights in all aspects of life. The fight for emancipation seeks to break down societal barriers that limit women’s opportunities, whether in education, employment, or decision-making positions. It aims to challenge traditional gender roles and stereotypes that confine women to specific roles or undermine their capabilities.
As a single mother, I have experienced firsthand the challenges and triumphs that come with raising a child independently. It is a journey marked by resilience, strength and an unwavering commitment to providing the best life possible for my child. Single mothers often face societal stigma, financial hardships, and emotional struggles, but we are also a testament to the incredible strength that lies within women. We learn to balance our responsibilities, nurture our children, and pursue our own dreams with unwavering determination.
However, my journey as a single mother is intertwined with another painful reality – being a victim of sexual abuse. It is an experience that no one should endure, yet it is far too common in our society. Sexual abuse not only inflicts physical and emotional harm but also robs victims of their sense of security, trust, and self-worth. Survivors of sexual abuse face tremendous challenges on their path to healing, but they are also resilient individuals who find strength in their vulnerability. It is crucial that we create safe spaces and support systems that empower survivors and work towards preventing such heinous acts from happening in the first place.
“Combining these experiences, I have come to realise that the emancipation of women is not merely a goal to strive for, but a necessity for a just and equitable society. It is a call to action for each and every one of us to challenge the status quo, to stand up against injustice, and to support and uplift one another.”
Let us foster an environment where women are encouraged to dream, pursue their passions, and contribute their invaluable perspectives to all aspects of life. Let us create a society where single mothers are given the respect and support they deserve, acknowledging their strength and resilience. And let us ensure that victims of sexual abuse are heard, believed, and provided with the resources and support necessary to heal and rebuild their lives.
Together, we can create a world where women are truly emancipated, where their voices are amplified, and where their rights are protected. Let us embark on this journey of progress, compassion, and understanding, for the betterment of our society and the generations to come.
Thank you
Yvette Mercado