The Southeast and East Asian Women’s Association (SEAWA) held its first annual general assembly last 18 June 2023 in London. The event was attended by women from various parts of Southeast and East Asia, including representatives from Malaysia, the Philippines, Thailand, Singapore, Vietnam, China, and Hong Kong. The assembly was held to celebrate its registration as a Charitable Incorporated Organisation as well as to discuss women’s issues, explore opportunities for collaboration, and elect the association’s board members.

With the AGM’s theme: Women Emancipation in the Context of Southeast and East Asian migration, panelists from Malaysia, Philippines, and Hong Kong gave their insight and personal experience as a migrant and as a woman and how taking part in women’s emancipation movement impacts their lives. 

SEEAWA was very honoured to have support with a speech from Merlene Toh Emerson, a former solicitor and co-founder of Chinese Liberal Democrats, and a solidarity message Myla Arceno, the first Filipino Mayor in the UK. 

Joyce Mak and R Sin from ESEA Sisters talked about their life experiences, particularly in identifying when and how they feel emancipated as a woman. They also shared how important it is to be part of an organisation, in their case, being part of ESEA Sisters, especially how the formation of the organisation helped with the mental health and feeling of the community during the COVID-19 lockdown. 

Yvette Mercado, a trustee of SEEAWA and a member of the support group for Filipino mothers in the UK, Mumshie braved the sharing of her personal experience as a single mother in the UK raising her child all by herself. She also shared the challenges she faces being an immigrant without any family support and not being able to provide for her child and her family back home. Yvette is one of the community leaders who selflessly shares her time and knowledge with the community to encourage more women. 

One of the panellists is from the Malaysian Community and a former chair of a charity for women with disabilities, Jane Chelliah. Jane defined emancipation for the participants, mentioning that women’s emancipation is deep and magnanimous. She talked about how even in contemporary times, women’s emancipation is a continuous struggle, especially behind closed doors. Jane emphasises that women’s emancipation starts within. 

All the way from Scotland, we had Kimi Jolly who discussed the importance of women’s emancipation in contemporary contexts and its importance to the new younger generation. Kimi has broad experience in working with migrant women, especially from Asian backgrounds in Scotland. According to Kimi, this experience showed her that women’s emancipation is defined and practised differently in each generation. She encouraged everyone, especially those with fewer risks to face to continue advocating for women’s rights and emancipation for those more vulnerable and marginalised. Kimi encouraged everyone to keep on advocating. 

The last speaker attended online. Iris Inoceto, a political asylum in Paris, France. She is a former chairperson of Bahaghari Iloilo, an LGBTQI+ national democratic organisation based in the Philippines. She was tagged as a terrorist and a communist by the Philippine government causing her to flee. Iris talked about the importance of a comprehensive and inclusive mass movement for women covering the issues of women, children, and those identified as women. Using powerful visual presentations, Iris pointed out the success of the women’s movement and the challenges women activists face under the feudal patriarchal society. 

During the assembly, participants engaged in lively discussions and gave their opinion on topics such as women’s rights, gender-based violence, and economic empowerment. The attendees also shared their experiences and concerns about issues facing women in their respective countries and regions.

In addition, the assembly allowed for networking opportunities and the formation of partnerships to work towards shared goals of promoting gender equality and empowering women.

Proudly showcasing their talent and storytelling through songs are Shika from Malaysia and Itchie and Clair, members of Anakbayan UK and Gabriela UK respectively.

The success of this year’s assembly lays the foundation for future events and a continuous effort towards empowering women in Southeast and East Asia. There will be organised events on women’s emancipation as well as the faces of oppression and exploitation of women. These activities aim to bring a deeper understanding of the issues affecting Southeast and East Asian women in the UK and form a solidarity amongst the group that will eventually give birth to safe accommodation for the victims of abuse and trafficking.

For more information contact us at info@seeawa.org.uk

Today, I stand before you to shed light on the powerful topics of women’s emancipation, my personal experience as a single mother, and the painful reality of being a victim of sexual abuse. These are significant aspects of my life that have shaped my understanding of the world and my unwavering commitment to advocating for change.

Certainly, the challenging moments of being an undocumented single mother with no recourse to public funds have been numerous and overwhelming. I am experiencing;

1. Financial Struggles: Without access to public funds or government assistance, the financial burden falls solely on my shoulders. I find it extremely challenging to provide for my child’s basic needs, such as food, shelter, clothing, and healthcare. It has been a constant battle to make ends meet and ensure a stable environment for me and my son. For 7 years we have been moving to different accommodations and have experienced homelessness multiple times which impacted my son’s mental health and well-being. 

2. Limited Employment Opportunities: Due to my undocumented status, I have encountered significant barriers in finding legal employment which led to a cycle of low-paying jobs, and underemployment. The fear of being discovered and facing legal consequences can further exacerbate the already stressful situation.

3. Emotional and Mental Stress: The constant worry and uncertainty associated with living as an undocumented single mother with no recourse to public funds took a toll on my emotional and mental well-being. The fear of deportation, the pressure of providing for my child, and the isolation resulting from my circumstances lead to increased stress, anxiety, and depression.

4. Legal Challenges: Navigating the complex legal system without access to legal aid or resources can be an overwhelming task. I had difficulties understanding my rights, protecting myself from exploitation, or seeking legal remedies when necessary. The fear of being reported or detained can hang over my head, adding to the burden I carry every day.

I often rely on the support of charities, friends, and community organisations to meet our basic needs and overcome these obstacles. I believe it is essential to recognise these struggles and advocate for inclusive policies that provide a safety net for the most vulnerable members of society.

The emancipation of women is a cause that has been fought for tirelessly throughout history. It is a battle for gender equality, empowerment, and the recognition of women’s rights in all aspects of life. The fight for emancipation seeks to break down societal barriers that limit women’s opportunities, whether in education, employment, or decision-making positions. It aims to challenge traditional gender roles and stereotypes that confine women to specific roles or undermine their capabilities.

As a single mother, I have experienced firsthand the challenges and triumphs that come with raising a child independently. It is a journey marked by resilience, strength and an unwavering commitment to providing the best life possible for my child. Single mothers often face societal stigma, financial hardships, and emotional struggles, but we are also a testament to the incredible strength that lies within women. We learn to balance our responsibilities, nurture our children, and pursue our own dreams with unwavering determination.

However, my journey as a single mother is intertwined with another painful reality – being a victim of sexual abuse. It is an experience that no one should endure, yet it is far too common in our society. Sexual abuse not only inflicts physical and emotional harm but also robs victims of their sense of security, trust, and self-worth. Survivors of sexual abuse face tremendous challenges on their path to healing, but they are also resilient individuals who find strength in their vulnerability. It is crucial that we create safe spaces and support systems that empower survivors and work towards preventing such heinous acts from happening in the first place.

“Combining these experiences, I have come to realise that the emancipation of women is not merely a goal to strive for, but a necessity for a just and equitable society. It is a call to action for each and every one of us to challenge the status quo, to stand up against injustice, and to support and uplift one another.”

Let us foster an environment where women are encouraged to dream, pursue their passions, and contribute their invaluable perspectives to all aspects of life. Let us create a society where single mothers are given the respect and support they deserve, acknowledging their strength and resilience. And let us ensure that victims of sexual abuse are heard, believed, and provided with the resources and support necessary to heal and rebuild their lives.

Together, we can create a world where women are truly emancipated, where their voices are amplified, and where their rights are protected. Let us embark on this journey of progress, compassion, and understanding, for the betterment of our society and the generations to come.

Thank you

Yvette Mercado